DIVINE DINNER DATE
DINING ON THE R
I’m sure men who have never dined with a companion have wondered what exactly a lunch or dinner date entails. I don’t drink alcohol or eat dessert, so very often my time at a restaurant is shorter than most, and our time in the bedroom longer. I don’t mind if my date drinks or gets dessert but, usually toward the end of a meal, I just want to get you in the bedroom already! I often prefer a place where I can get a good Japanese wagyu steak or collect a Michelin star or two, but I care way more about the company than I do the food.
I take outfit requests for our date, just like I do in the bedroom, from little black dresses to latex. A recent date of mine bought me a beautiful long sleeved cropped black latex top to wear at dinner. He was wild with desire the entire time as my hard nipples taunted him in a shiny manner through my skin-tight top across the table. Another date simply requested “towering” high heels and I held onto his arm as I did a graceful walk from the Manhattan hotel to Nobu. I delight in dressing up for these affairs and find them to be real life fantasy due to getting to wear something special, relishing in rare and exquisite food, and enjoying the best company- it all makes for a surreal afternoon or evening!
One of us will make the reservation and I tend to arrive early. After sitting for a bit, usually the tribute is discreetly passed, so that it does not need to be acknowledged during our leisurely time together. One recent date felt self-conscious about doing this in public, so when we returned to his hotel room, he had covered an entire table in meticulously arranged cash. Some like to put it in a book and pass it over or even once, a surprise Chanel bag. Whatever works!
I enjoy being affectionate in public unless told otherwise. I do not want to sit next to the person on the same side of the table but will accommodate if the person is hearing impaired. I think there’s a Seinfeld episode about this and I don’t want to be that couple. I also tend to look sexy but subtle. I will wear incredibly revealing clothing upon request but I tend to keep it modest enough to not make the waitstaff drop too many plates. I tend to think we look natural together when we're out and about as I’m obviously into it.
Afterwards, if we’re going back to my place, I’ll have the room set up and ready for us. Very often a dinner date is part of an overnight. Usually, I’ll show up to the hotel and drop my stuff off, if there’s time we fool around, then we’re off to dinner, and back to the hotel where I’ll get dressed and set up for our wild night! Classic dinner dates usually last about four hours and my overnights usually last about 14 hours unless you feed me breakfast and then maybe I’ll stay a bit longer.
I offer straight four hour sessions whereas a lot of my peers state that if a date is three or more hours long then an outside activity needs to occur. I prefer to have two or three breaks during a four hour bedroom session but going for four hours and having multiple rounds is no issue for me. I do thoroughly enjoy the foreplay of sharing a meal and truly getting to know someone through conversation just as much as I enjoy hours in the bedroom. I chose my men carefully, so I don’t care where we are as long as we’re together sharing pleasure.
Your Mistress,
xx Ramona Ryder
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