MADE FOR THIS
Sex work is capitalism on my terms.
– Ramona Ryder
I believe I was born to do this. I think I am successful because I deeply love what I do and I do it by choice. I have lived the “square life.” Well, it was more a double life. I'd wear pencil skirts and glasses by day, then when I would get home, it was all leather and miniskirts.
I was always able to walk the line between both worlds and be responsible. I would never trade my current life for anything as this is my proper vocation. I feel it is my calling but it also gives me pleasure.
The Ramona who you see today did not emerge out of a vacuum. That said, none of this lifestyle or career success has surprised me. I have always been “hot to trot” if you will and (just a little) boy crazy. As I grew older and began to explore my sexuality, I was adventurous from the get-go and willing to try anything once. I am definitely bisexual and a deep lover of pleasure. Pleasure is my favorite pastime whether it’s lazy days in bed indulgently masturbating, watching a man whole-heartedly surrender to me on his knees, or powerful vaginal orgasms produced by deep thrusts and enhanced by my legendary Kegel muscles. I am multi-orgasmic and I live for pleasure—a true hedonist!
As a professional courtesan, I am not “stepping into a role” or “playing a part.” What you see is the real me: an adventurous, dominant woman who is highly sexual and enjoys playing. I do not do anything that does not give me pleasure nor engage with anyone with whom I do not derive pleasure. I do believe I have been successful by being my most authentic self while playing by my rules and standards. So if you see me it is because I want to see you. When you see me it’s actually me. I don’t really have to “sell” an image. In essence, I am literally and figuratively "selling myself", although under a nom de plume. "Ramona" is for my love of my hometown punk heroes, the Ramones and "Ryder" is a nod to my love of motorcycles and maybe riding something else. One could say that I live to ride.
My evolution from tantra to more kinky pursuits began with “sensual domination” mostly involving prostate massage and strap-on play. I am always dominant in every facet of my life, so that aspect came naturally. This opened up a Pandora’s box of all sorts of fun and thus paved the way for me to become more skilled and adventurous.
You may label me a control freak but I am insane about providing a top-quality experience and my environment matters. Being the business woman that I am and fiercely self-reliant, I transitioned easily to being independent and I have never looked back.
Even if I may seem unbelievable to you, I assure you I am real. It has been a glorious adventure so far and this time of year marks the anniversary of the birth of Mistress Ramona Ryder. I hope this next year brings even more fun adventures which we can explore together.
Your Mistress,
Ramona Ryder
