MISTRESS ESCAPES
Your NYC Mistress
OFF TO THE WOODS
YOUR MISTRESS IN NATURE
I'm breaking out of the city and not for Los Angeles, London, or Osaka but for Upstate New York. I feel like a cliche. I just did an Interview with this legendary Dominatrix ad site and thought I'd share some of it before I left just to keep things normal- latex, leather, NYC, and kinky sex.
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Q: It's a pleasure talking to You; we've been big fans of Yours for some time. Please tell people where You're currently located and whether You have any travel plans for the rest of 2025.
I'm currently in NYC and have plans for Boston, Los Angeles, and San Francisco later this year. I decided to spend My summer in NYC to take a much-needed vacation.
Q: Is NYC where You started Your career, and if not, what brought You to that part of the world?
I am born and raised in NYC! I started My Dominatrix career in San Francisco going so far as to build My own dungeon with ceiling mirrors and all. I came back to NYC because I missed the electricity of the streets and the much larger and more active punk scene. I got into punk in high school and have practically done everything in the scene from singing in bands to having My own record label.
Q: Were You an aspiring Dominatrix in Your childhood days or did that come about later? Would the 'schoolgirl You' be surprised to learn that this became Your profession?
Not one person who I have ever told, from childhood friend to a person I just met, has ever been surprised that I am a Dominatrix. All I wanted as a young girl was to be desired like Jessica Rabbit, to be a vamp that turned heads. I turned out to be more Elvira but with the same results.
Q: What was Your initial introduction to the scene and how did that evolve into Your decision to make this a profession?
Punk fashion was My introduction aesthetically and I picked it up immediately in high school and looked the part- handcuffs on a belt, garters with fishnets, studded leather, and dark eye makeup. I learned more about the underground scenes on the streets of NYC and even got invited to work at a dungeon even though I was underage and declined due to My strict curfew. I was extremely good at the psychological aspects of domination, but it was not until college that I started to experiment with asphyxiation, bondage, and pain. Reading Venus in Furs and listening to The Velvet Underground (plus reading the book of the same name where they got their name) can be a gateway for some.
Even as a teenager, I realized that I was different; when things would just happen like I'd ask a man for a cigarette, and he'd give Me the whole pack. I am used to men being generous with Me as a natural occurrence and not a transactional one- I expect to be treated well. This self-confidence and the desire for power exchange lead Me perfectly into the dungeon. I was a
philosophy major who has had several different professions before the world of being Your Mistress, but being a professional Dominatrix Escort is My longest running vocation and My calling.
Q: Do You recall Your very first session? Tell us about some of the most memorable ones You've had.
My first official skills were orgasm edging and tease & denial. I started with tantra and the sensual before moving to strap-on play and prostate pleasure. I don't remember a specific first session just that I was immediately good at anything I tried, and people would extend sessions or come back the next day. My most memorable sessions often have to do with true masochists- men who stay hard as I inflict pain and watching them go deeper and deeper into
subspace. True masochists are rare, and when there is deep trust, then I push the boundaries and physical limits as hard as I can. Eventually, when our time is almost up, they are so flooded with serotonin that an orgasm always kills them. Oh, and fisting is always fun as it's so intimate when You can feel someone's heartbeat from the inside.
Q: What do Your favorite scenes involve?
Worshipping Me and My pleasure go without saying. I love a true latex fetishist and despise those that just want a wet look as the ritual of latex gets lost- latex is not only about the visual. There must be the desire for the smell of rubber and the sensual sensation of being touched with latex as a sheath. I am a good Dominatrix for exploration, but I love it when My men show up completely and hopelessly weak for their fetishes. Visual sensory deprivation, bondage,
sensation play, orgasm edging, teasing, and prostate orgasms are also fun.
Q: What do You think people assume about Pro Dommes, or more specifically You, that is just not true?
In My professional or personal life, I think the stereotype that we're cruel and unapproachable which is the complete opposite for Me both in My personal and professional life. I am extremely strict with My protocol for subs and clients, but I have heart. The first thing that happens when we meet is being met with a huge smile. I hunger for a deep relationship with My men and don't
keep it surface level- this is real and not an act. Being a Dominatrix is not a costume for Me or a role.
Q: How do You balance everything and what do You like to do for fun? Do You have any hobbies?
My rates and the three-hour minimum mean that I work less but make more so the live/work life balance is better than it used to be. I love hanging out with other people from this world and going to punk shows and parties. I have a lot of friends who are artists so You can often find Me at art openings. I listen to NPR and read the New York Times all the time. I love documentaries, especially about 1970s NYC. I have a shoe fetish, so I have a massive collection of boots and heels as well as latex and lingerie. My devoted men buying these items that I lust for is a dream come true- I have always been obsessed with undergarments and high heels since I was in single digits and a little girl. I wear latex and leather casually and even during the summer. Aesthetically, I am devoted 24/7 to anything such as stockings to corsets any day, any time, any
place.
Q: What are some of Your future goals?
It seems that My trajectory in this business has always been upward, even as I have gotten older. I think the Myth that one ages out is just that, a Myth. If one can protect their energy and keep their time sacred, then one can last a lot longer in this industry. I want to write a book because I have so many unbelievable stories and am also living a life beyond My wildest
dreams. I have everything I ever wanted and almost exactly as I wanted it. It's now a matter of aggressively saving and investing for retirement. I want to retire by 2036.
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And that is just a snippet. You can support Dickie Virgin here. They are more for the BDSM community but it's still a fun relic of dominatrix advertising. And that, my dear friend, is all I am going to leave you with. I'll be back to answering emails Friday and we'll see how good I am about staying off social media, etc while “relaxing.” I have no idea what I have gotten myself into with this strange excursion to the Catskills.
